Swinging, for couples and singles
Meet swingers near you on Swinging KinxHub – a members' site just for the lifestyle.
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Inside the lifestyle
Start at a meet and greet
Most people begin at a vanilla social in a bar, then move on to private play parties once trust is built.
Not the same as polyamory
Swinging is mostly recreational; polyamory means more than one loving relationship. Say which you want in your bio.
Swinging by state
Our USA guides, one state at a time.
Swinging, explained
What is swinging?
Often called the lifestyle, swinging is consensual non-monogamy: couples in committed relationships play with other couples or singles. It's mostly social and recreational, though deep friendships often form.
What do unicorn, bull and soft swap mean?
Unicorn: a single woman who meets couples. Stag or bull: a single man – a bull is usually part of a hotwife dynamic. Soft swap: oral or manual play, no intercourse with others. Full swap: intercourse with swapped partners.
What are the rules at a party?
No means no. Consent is enthusiastic, specific and can be taken back at any time. Agree your boundaries before you leave the house, and have a signal – a squeeze of the hand – for leaving a situation quietly.
Any advice for single men and women?
Single men are vetted more strictly: be polite, well groomed, and never assume you're owed a couple's time. Single women are in demand, so say your limits clearly.
How do I avoid fake profiles?
Look for the verified badge – ID verification is free. Keep your face in a private gallery and share it once you've built a rapport.
What's hotwifing?
A wife has encounters with others, usually single men, while her husband watches or hears about it later. The focus is her pleasure and his voyeurism.
How do we get started?
Join, make a joint profile with a recent photo, and say exactly what you're into – if it's soft swap only, say so. Chat first, then meet for a drink.
